Entirely on
your terms.
The Relish Select is our proprietary private digital matching tool — the part of the evening that happens after the evening itself. It replaces paper scorecards, public reveals, and awkward end-of-night moments with something quieter, more considered, and entirely private.
After every Relish structured social evening, guests log in from any device and privately indicate who they'd like to see again. No app required. No pressure. No one knows who you've chosen until mutual interest is confirmed.
"Think of it simply as the date before the date."
The structured evening wraps and the night is whatever you make of it. Stay, mingle, or head off — your Relish Select will be waiting whenever you're ready.
Access the Relish Select from your phone, tablet, or desktop — no app required. Log in using the details from your event confirmation and you'll see everyone you met that evening.
Indicate who you'd like to see again. Your selections are completely private — nobody can see who you've chosen. You can update your choices at any time before the window closes at midnight.
When two people choose each other, it's a match. You'll each receive a first name and an email address. What happens next is entirely up to you.
A match is only created when both people choose each other. If one person selects another but interest isn't mutual, nothing is shared. No awkward one-sided reveals. No unwanted contact.
This is one of the most important parts of the Relish Select. It keeps the experience private, emotionally safe, and entirely on your terms — while allowing you to be genuinely honest about who you'd like to see again.
The chemistry happens in person. The Relish Select simply protects how interest is recorded, processed, and shared.
The Relish Select does more than support matches from a single evening. Interest signals gathered across events help Relish understand real-world attraction patterns — who guests are drawn to, where mutual interest appears, and which individuals may naturally connect.
Those signals can help shape future opportunities across the Relish ecosystem — including future structured evenings, curated events, and Relish Introductions.
A Relish evening doesn't have to end when the last conversation does. The Relish Select helps ensure that what happens in the room can continue to inform what comes next.
Most dating platforms begin with profiles, photos, and questionnaires. The Relish Select begins with real conversation.
That matters because real-life chemistry often reveals things a profile cannot. How does someone carry a conversation? Who do they seem drawn to? Where does mutual interest naturally appear? The Relish Select captures those signals from live social settings and uses them thoughtfully — to process matches, inform future event curation, and support the introduction process.
Dating is still human. Chemistry is still human. Our hosts still guide the room. The Relish Select simply helps us notice real-world patterns that might otherwise go unseen — and use them to create better opportunities for the people in our rooms.
Rather than relying only on what someone says they want, the Relish Select helps us understand how interest actually appears when people meet face to face.
Guest privacy is fundamental to the Relish Select. Selections remain completely private. Guests do not see who selected them unless there is mutual interest. Results are not discussed publicly, and contact information is never shared without mutual agreement.
We do not publicly rank guests. We do not announce who selected whom. We do not turn connection into a competition.
The Relish Select is designed to protect autonomy, privacy, and dignity — while making it easier for genuine mutual interest to find its way to the surface.
The Relish Select takes care of the rest.
Find your city and reserve your place at the next Relish evening. Your Relish Select will be ready when the evening ends.
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